CODE OF CONDUCT

Indigo Dance is a vibrant community that celebrates the art of social dance—a space where connections flourish and friendships are formed. Whether you're a seasoned dancer or just starting your journey, Indigo welcomes everyone* and equally belongs to all who consider our community a place of belonging, expression, and joy. Our events create opportunities for growth and social engagement, fostering connections both on and off the dance floor.

Respect for others is essential, and we are committed to being a welcoming space for everyone, regardless of gender, gender identity, race, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, or religion. We believe that a thriving environment is built on shared responsibility, and every member of our community plays a vital role in shaping our culture. By attending Indigo Dance events, you agree to adhere to this Code of Conduct, which outlines our shared responsibilities and expectations.

*Indigo events are intended for individuals over 18 years old.

Community Responsibility

I understand that it is my responsibility, along with all community members—especially regular attendees—to foster an environment free from coercion, discrimination, and bullying. I recognize that if someone raises an issue regarding my behavior, I should respond with openness and a willingness to learn.

I understand that while no environment can guarantee that everyone will feel perfectly comfortable, addressing harassment is essential for maintaining a positive atmosphere. I commit to doing my part in creating a supportive and respectful community for everyone.

Trust and Respect

I understand that social dancing requires vulnerability, and that trust and respect are essential to fostering a positive dance community. I commit to being mindful of how I connect with my dance partners, avoiding movements that may come across as intrusive or overly intimate. I recognize that my actions influence how others experience Indigo events, and I take responsibility for creating a comfortable and welcoming environment for everyone.

I also recognize the importance of refraining from offering unsolicited dance advice during lessons or on the social dance floor. If someone seeks feedback, I will take the conversation to a more private setting to avoid disrupting others.

Additionally, I understand that personal hygiene is crucial for creating a pleasant atmosphere. If I am feeling unwell, I will stay home to protect the health of others in our community. While at an event, I will take appropriate measures to maintain good personal hygiene (wash regularly, wear clean clothes, use deodorant/antiperspirant, etc.) to ensure that everyone can enjoy their time together comfortably.

Consent

I understand that respecting consent is fundamental to creating a positive dance environment. This means I will verbally ask others to dance. I also recognize that everyone has the right to say “no” without further explanation. If someone declines my invitation, I will accept their response graciously.

If I feel uncomfortable during a dance, I will verbally communicate my boundaries clearly and assertively. If my partner expresses discomfort, I will immediately acknowledge their feelings and ask what specifically needs to change. This might mean adjusting my movements, changing the style of dance, or stopping a particular action. I will listen to their concerns and make adjustments so that both of us feel safe and comfortable.

I understand that it is important to create a space where both partners feel respected, and I commit to prioritizing open communication and consent at all times.

Safety (Physical, Personal, Substance)

I understand that safety is paramount in our dance community, and I take responsibility for being aware of my surroundings on the dance floor. If I bump into someone, I will apologize and make an effort to maintain small movements in crowded spaces to ensure everyone’s safety. To prevent injuries to myself and others, I also recognize that certain movements, such as aerials, should not be attempted on the dance floor.

I understand that dance should never be used as an opportunity to cross physical boundaries. I understand that while accidental violations of physical boundaries may occur, intentional violations are taken very seriously. Any behavior that disregards another person’s comfort, whether accidental or deliberate, can result in immediate consequences. This includes being asked to leave the event right away and being banned from future gatherings. It is crucial to create an environment where everyone feels secure, and I will do my part to uphold that standard.

While Indigo gatherings may occasionally involve the presence of alcohol, it is important to consume responsibly and in moderation. Under no circumstances should alcohol or drugs be shared with, offered to, or consumed by anyone under the age of 21. Violating these guidelines, including providing substances to minors, will result in immediate removal from the event and may lead to permanent banning from future events.

I have a responsibility to uphold these standards. If I observe any behavior related to substance misuse or distribution to minors, I will notify an event organizer immediately.

Conflict Resolution/Procedure

I understand that if I feel my personal space has been violated, I should first try to address the issue directly with the individual involved. If their behavior is accidental, a conversation may help clarify boundaries. However, if their behavior is intentional or continues despite my request, I will escalate the matter to a board member or event organizer. I understand that open dialogue is encouraged to help maintain a safe and supportive community.

 I recognize that if I am asked to stop or change my behavior, I am expected to honor the request. 

I understand that if I experience or witness harassment, I should address the behavior directly by asking the person to stop. I understand that if the behavior continues or I feel unsafe, I should seek out an Indigo organizer immediately at the DJ booth or front table. I understand that Indigo organizers may take appropriate action to uphold the Code of Conduct. This may include warnings, expulsion from the event without a refund, or being banned from future events.